When I was in high school, I was the guy who was glued to the wall at the school dances, wishing he could ask just ONE girl to dance. But every evening after the dance had ended, I was sure to go home alone.
Not Any More! I’ve come a long way since then, have an incredible college social life - and more girls than I know what to do with! (You can read more about my long, successful, incredible transformation - on my blog at: Bachelor Dating Guide Exploit )
One of the “essentials” I had to learn, on my road from dating-dork to dating-Master, was WHERE to pickup girls. Not just places with women, but places PACKED with women, places that made it EASY to pickup women - and places with HOT women!
So let’s get to it. Here are 7 of the best places to pickup girls. I’ve listed them starting with common places (lots of women), to uncommon (a bit harder to do the pickup, but higher quality women).
#7: Bars & Nightclubs
Ok, I had to start with the place every guy thinks of first. But bars are not the best places to pickup women. Not the best setup. Not the best women. And one of the toughest pickup “environments” around.
However, bars are everywhere, nightclubs are fun, and they’re packed with girls on particular nights and during the “rush hours”. Plus, you can pickup more than one girl per evening out, IF you do it right. So how about a setup where the girl picks YOU up? How’d ya like that??
The Key: Choose your spot.
Checkout your intended target beforehand. Then go early the night you’re “operating”, and reserve yourself the busiest spot at the bar (that you’ve already picked out).
All night, people will be cramming to get past you as they try to order their drinks in the chaos. And half of those people will be WOMEN!
Women will be knocking into you, touching you, crushing you - all night. You’ll get a constant series of perfect moments, for opening conversations with the girls of your choice!
#6: The Mega-Mall
Every large city has a mega-mall (or several). But even if you live in a small town, that one place in town everyone goes to shop, will do just fine.
Women love to shop. That’s a fact. So it just follows that anytime you go to the mall, there’s bound to be lots of women there.
The Key: Choose your time.
Do your research beforehand. Go to the Mall at different times of day, and different days. Walk around and see what kind of “pickings” are available. (Also, you’ll find the best spots where women tend to congregate.)
One thing that amazed me was that the times with the MOST women, were not necessarily the times with the BEST looking women. So be sure to try the lunch-break, after work, and later in the evening. Then pick the time, frequented by the kind of women you would like to meet!
And speaking of Malls…
#5: Fragrance Stores
If you don’t know what these are, take a sniff of the air - you’ll find them! These are the places that sell bath oils, shower gels, body lotions - all in cute little pre-packaged assortments, with a ton of different fragrances all with cute sounding names. Women can’t get enough of this stuff.
#4: Franchise Coffee Shops
Personally, I think it’s kinda dumb to frequent a shop that just sells coffee. Isn’t that what donut shops are for? But after a long, “tough” day of shopping, women love to drop all their bags and relax with a coffee/tea. They’re bored, they’re tired, and they’d just love some company. Try asking her if her shopping “war” was successful - then be prepared to spend the next hour reviewing her “captives”.
#3: Franchise Bookstores
Franchise Bookstores: Any bookstore works, but the big franchises attract women like a magnet (think Barnes & Noble). Especially on “dating nights” and weekends, when a women who doesn’t have a date that week, can easily occupy herself for an entire evening, book-browsing.
The Key: Choose your books.
Once again, do your research beforehand. In every section that women frequent, pick one book (preferably a new best-seller), and get familiar with it.
Then, when you’re ready to cruise the bookstore aisles and you see a girl you’d like to know better - you’ve got something to talk about, that you know she’ll be interested in. In most cases, all you have to do is ask her if she’s read that particular book, and she’ll do all the talking! If she has, you just listen as she gives her opinion (women love doing that!); if she hasn’t, you can do your gentlemanly “duty” and fill her in about it.
