In this crazy fast paced world of confusion, most men and women go based on illusion. What do men want? That is the big question. An even bigger question would be what do women want?
If any one person knew the answer, maybe it would not be a question and as individuals we might actually get some place productive in regard to the area of relationships.
However, in this crazy fast paced world of confusion, most men and women go based on illusion.
Women go on the illusion of what could be. Just the possibility that a date with a man could lead into something long term, a woman will take a chance, and see what a man is all about. Never realizing that the only long term anything she might get is long-term stress.
I say this because, if you have a date with a man, and you are interested in him, more then likely he will not be honest.
This brings me to the next question.
Why can’t men just tell the truth?
The truth hurts, but it will save everyone from stress. This is why some, a lot, not all but some women are lonely. Well most women, not all, hang on to the hope of what might be. To some degree, most women are lonely. I believe the ones that are lonely are the married ones. I speak from experience. When I was married, I spent more time alone then when I was single.
What I have noticed, most marriages lack communication. Why? It’s simple, because men are not honest about how they feel, about what they want. Men do not know what they want. So they can’t be honest about it. Men have this need to be on top of things, and they would like women to think they actually have a clue.
Men and relationships just do not fit well, why, because men are not comfortable sharing the emotional part of their soul when they feel insecure. A man that is secure with who he is will not be afraid to share with his partner, all his secrets, desires, and inner most thoughts. Sure any man will share them self sexually with absolutely no shame.
Just think of how good it could feel to have a relationship with someone, even if just of a sexual nature. If you explore with your partner and share your true desires. The whole entire experience would be so much better. If it happens that the relationship ends, well at best it was worth the time put into it, because neither one of the people in the relationship held back.
Personally I think, to have a partner that you can be yourself with, especially in the bedroom. It makes the entire experience so much more fulfilling.
So what if it doesn’t end up long term. Feel no shame that you let go and gave into passion instead of fear. Now this person knows what you feel from your soul. So what if in that moment you said words you might not say other wise. In the moment of passion anything is to be expected.
By you not being fearful, you leave the door open for that person to one day return, even if just for a playback of what once was, and they will do this because they felt comfortable with you.
This is not to offend anyone person, it is the truth as I have come to not only see it, but to experience it as well.
