Everyone loves to travel. Unfortunately, tourists do not always receive the warmest reception in foreign cities. The reasons for this are varied, but I have had the chance to observe other Americans abroad and I can see their point. While the majority of us are well mannered and polite, a few folks have apparently soured host cities on the rest of the American populace. With these observations in mind, here are a few tips to help you be a good tourist.
Learn the language, or at least a few phrases. Do not land in Italy, Spain, or the Czech Republic and expect everyone you meet to speak English. They won’t. In fact, some people who do speak English will not oblige if they find you rude, aggressive, or otherwise obnoxious. Learning the local phrases for “please”, “thank you”, “hello”, “can you help me”, etc will ingratiate you to the citizenry and ensure a warmer reception. Try your best, but realize that a poorly pronounced foreign phrase is endearing and shows that you are willing to put forth the effort to get to know this new place. It’s also a great ice breaker while the waiter/docent/concierge coaches you how to pronounce it properly.
Display good manners and social responsibility. It sounds like common sense, but be on better behavior than when you are at home. It is not okay to litter, break the laws, or behave dangerously just because you are on vacation. This blatant disrespect shows the world that you are self centered and not interested in the culture and life of the place. You may well be courting a lot of trouble if you break laws in other countries, so be sure to know what’s what before you land.
Respect foreign customs. As with any host, a foreign country has rules, expectations, and norms. You know the phrase” When in Rome do as the Romans do?” it’s a good idea. Aside from giving you a more accurate view of the country you are visiting, you can blend harmoniously with the population and not stick out as an “Ugly American”. For instance, it is not customary to wear jeans to the opera in Italy or to go with your head uncovered in certain cathedrals, synagogues, and mosques. Preparing for this experience ahead of time will save you time, hassle, possibly money, and show respect for local culture.
I don’t claim to be an expert on the subject, but I do know that I have made several successful trips, had wonderful experiences, and met some lovely people abroad. With a little effort, you may just have a once in a lifetime experience too!
