Biography: This is just a little information about me. Please keep in mind that the tips and information that I give out is all from personal experience and miscellaneous reading and advice that I was given throughout the years. Most of my tips are for male and female relationships since that is what I am familiar with. I am a 46 year old married, mother of two boys in college, I’m college educated and I have had several careers. I was a combat medic in the army, then an Anthropologist, Mental Health Counselor, School teacher, and now I am completing my nursing degree. I have been a tomboy all of my life and I have always received more than enough attention from men. Even at my age now, a 24 year old that is in my study group actually asked me out. Most of the time I can pass for 30. I am very friendly and enjoy having conversations with men about sex.
Sex is all in the mind. Have you ever noticed that a hard on can happen or your vagina can get wet at just the thought of your partner or anybody that you find attractive? Have you ever notice that a woman that is what you might consider chubby or too heavy (not obese) appears to get a lot of attention from men? The reason why is because she thinks she’s sexy and she radiates sex. She isn’t thinking about the size of her hips or cellulite when she’s making love or wearing tight clothing with her breast hanging out and men know this. She just smiles and generates a positive attitude with no hang-ups. Remember, you are what you think you are. Here is a quick story. I have a brother that has always hated over weight women. He married this lady that was in great shape, not to fat, not to skinny. After about 3 years they divorced, and to my surprise he started dating this lady that was slightly over weight but healthy, and for some reason she always seemed very sexy to me. Well they got married and they have been married now for 18 years. Remember a woman that feels good about herself will more than likely make a man feel good.
Men think about sex more than women. Face it ladies, men are just wired differently. It took me awhile to figure this one out. I have always been a tomboy with DD breast and very cute but I never did anything to draw attention to myself. I could never understand why a man would look at me while I was mowing the lawn until my husband told me the reason. The reason why is because when I sweat it looks like a wet-tee shirt to them. To me I just look like a dirty sweaty woman. Now I am aware that every time that I do something a man is looking at me in a sexual way. Men will look at every part of a woman’s body and could possibly become aroused. The main attraction is that I think that a man can pick up if the woman thinks she’s sexy or not. Ladies please do not get upset if your partner looks at other woman. Just remember; aren’t you glad that he can appreciate a good looking woman that’s why he’s with you.
Stay healthy. There is nothing more pleasing then a healthy partner. Practice safe sex if you are not in a monogamous relationship. It is easier to get into any position that you enjoy. For me being health also allowed me to be more adventurous. When you eat right you tend to have more energy and a better sexual appetite. When having oral sex a healthy partner taste a lot better. Staying healthy helps with lubrication, erections and endurance. Exercise is very important to me. I do not belong to a gym because I live in an area that has nice weather year round; instead I get my exercise in doing daily things. I mow my lawn and do gardening. I walk my dog every morning for 30-45 minuets. I take the stairs whenever I can, and I try to park as far away from my destination or store that I am going into. I try not to eat a heavy meal before sex. I usually eat things like seafood, salad, fresh fruit, wine, and cheese. Usually afterward my partner enjoys eating something a little heavier.
Be his private sex slave. In private, most people wouldn’t believe the stuff comes out of my mouth or the things that I do. I keep my husband hard. Find out what turns him on and go for it. Keep in mind that you want to / or will be with this man for the rest of your life. If you can’t do or say nasty things to him then one of you might end up pretty unhappy. You really don’t want to be the person that is always fantasizing about doing things or saying things and never doing them. For most of the people that I know sex is a big part of their relationship and they are not happy when they feel as if they have to look else where for satisfaction. I do not agree with threesomes. I am talking about monogamy man and woman relationships.
On my next blog I will give you details about some of the things that I do to keep my husband hard, horney and happy.
