Whether you are planning your own party or your best friends a party can be a blast to put together. Turning thirty is a milestone in everyone’s lives. It’s the turn of a decade, the entrance to middle age. By age thirty some people have established careers, families and marriages. Many who have not established these things are getting ready to. Thirty is a great age to reflect on the life you have lived and envision the life you would like to have. In many ways thirty can be a gateway to your future. It isn’t too late to start a retirement fund, finish school, start saving for children’s college or plan a future with you family. Thirty is an exciting time to change or continue your life’s path, you’re birthday party should reflect this.
The first step should be to establish a theme. What would you like the message of the night to be? For instance, I’ve always wanted to spend my thirtieth birthday in Tahiti. A great birthday party theme would be island related, tropical, a beach party! A close friend of mine wants to skydive for her thirtieth birthday. Her perfect party might be one of adventure, pictures of her most recent skydiving trip and other adventures she has pursued in the past or wants to pursue in the future.
Once you have a theme you need to establish a guest list. Do you want to have a small intimate party or invite everyone you’ve ever met for the past thirty years? This will help you determine a location for your party as well. You will also want to establish a budget during this time, which may help you determine how many guests to invite. A small intimate gathering in your living room or at a local pub would be a memorable and inexpensive party idea. This will also help you establish a menu for the evening. You could choose to make dinner at your home, have people bring a dish to pass or just have guests stop by for cake!
Finally, remember when you plan this shindig that when it comes to party planning size doesn’t matter. A small gathering with a few personal touches can be just as exciting and memorable as renting a hall for 500 of your closest friends. The key to planning the perfect party is personalizing it. At a thirtieth birthday party a balanced reflection of the life you’ve lived with an optimistic presentation of what the future may hold can be a great way to celebrate the turn of a decade.