What do to on the first date? What you can do will depend on certain criteria. How long have you been talking with her? How much do you know of her? How did you meet her? GO on your date with knowledge of this girl or woman, because if you really want to go the second date, or get on first base, you better ready to amuse her, entertain her, and most importantly, be prefered to listen. Specially if you like her.
Listen to what she has to say. While she is talking, think of something positive, or fun to say about what she just talked about. “Wine and dine” is the objective, however, there is a big “to do” list that goes with that saying, and you only have two hours to make it to first base haha!
A usual date consist of Dinner, movie, then you cross your fingers and hope to get on first base haha!
When it comes to ordering and such, let the woman be independently herself. She can order food from a menu before she met ya, and she can do it again without assistance from someone she is with on her first date.
As far as I’m concerned, be yourself and listen to the woman when she talks. If the date is not going well, then you have two options; enjoy the date anyways and go home or do other things. The second is come up with a great excuse to get out of the date early. I usually will have a friend call me at a certain time.  If the date is going well, then I make it a short call with my friend, tell them that I am with something important right now, I will call you back. This process could get you closer to where you want to be.  She may feel important, and welcome you in for the night.
It does not happen like this all the time, believe me haha!  How you come across during this process will impact her mood, her conversation, and sometimes even close down, and start looking around the restaurant. This usually means she is bored, hoping to find someone she knows. At this time, you better have planned the second call from a friend.  If this date is worth saving, then you better have a good story in front of her.
I usually use the ”Helping a friend” story.  Let her hear your brief. but helping conversation to a friend on the phone. Get emotional, yet sensitive.
If this does not work, well, you move on, and hope the date was affordable haha! It is time to play the numbers game.
First dates “deer hunting”. You bait them with a few phone calls, and good story, and if the wind is right, you may get lucky and “harvest” something at the end of night haha!. Good luck to all first date, may the women enjoy their free evening, and may the gents get lucky!
