In Love with an Aries, are you Aries? Good for you! Not only have you been swept off your feet, most likely, but this relationship demands you stay on your toes, pretty nearly all the time. And, of course, visa versa, because you have captivated an Aries -who was likely swept away by your dynamic personality and personal magnetism. So if your beau knows himself, he also know pretty much, instinctively, what he’s in for relationship-wise. And that would be (in no particular order) excitement, stimulation (mental,physical,emotional), and quite a lot of red-hot passion (at least in the beginning).
On the other hand, you’ve got some challenges in this relationship, because 1)Aries bores easily, and 2)likes to win an argument. On the boredom front, hopefully, neither of you is an open book. Once an Aries gets to know a lover too well, well, the fire goes out - sometimes rapidly. Big advice here: Keep him guessing about some things in your life. That’s one element of a good, lasting relationship (which applies to more than Aries, of course)….I don’t mean keep secrets - au contraire - Aries does not like to be fooled or kept in the dark. Just be a shade, or two, more mysterious and uber-spontaneous than you have been – and never, ever, be so predictable he can start finishing your sentences…the 2nd major challenge for you is the fact that both of you like to be right. If you disagree, you are likely, as you stated, to butt heads. But this is not a fate certain, dear Aries, because your mutual Sun Suns are greatly affected by your individual rising signs, unless you are twins (just kidding). This means that your total horoscope includes elements and aspects that may cool down some of your more aggressive Aries qualities,leading to compromise and negotiation. (Disclosure here: I’m an Aries. My rising signs grounds and subdues me - sometimes)….
As I was thinking about your relationship question, I visualized a steamy bowl of delicious chili. And I thought, a great relationship with an Aries is like a fab bowl of chili: steamy, hot, unpredictable - but ultimately delicious. Just don’t over-do it…. I still remember the best chili I ever had many years ago in Santa Fe, New Mexico, it was served steaming hot, full of delicious, fresh ingredients. The chili was composed of both subtle and pungent spices and laced with a few surprise ingredients (I think, maybe, chocolate).It was served with generous sides of jalapenos,grated cheese,sour cream, and sliced olives. My conclusion: If you want your Aries/Aries relationship to last, visualize all the components of an unforgettable chili: Keep your already-spicey relationship fresh and surprising. Work to keep it hot, inside and out; (but not so heated from arguments, that it burns your mouth or waters your eyes). A little chili, my dear Aries, goes a long way - something to keep in mind when you’re an Aries, or with one. It’s surprising how good it feels to win an argument when it seems like you didn’t.
