In may seem like an impossible task to share your faith with someone who thinks religion has no place in their life. You may feel like they only way you can succeed is to completely rewire your husband. Yet, nothing could be further from the truth. Despite your problem’s initial paradoxical appearance, it’s actually quite simple to in the very least partially solve it. The key is to dwell on the faith and values associated with Christianity, and not the religion itself. As well as to let go of the idea that it’s your duty to change him, and simply present him with some new ideas that may brighten his world.
Religions grow out of a fundamental need for faith and community. A common theme in many major religions around the world, is the belief that following the values of one’s religion is what’s truly important, not a stalwart dedication to it’s dogmatic aspects. When one loves their religion, they love the goodness they see it spread in their community, they love way it brings people together and how it can clarify our sometimes confused earthly existence with purpose. To share these aspects is to share the true core tenets of the religion, and anyone should be able to see how they are be beneficial.
When attempting to share your religion with your husband, open your heart to the idea that he may yet benefit from an injection of spirituality and religious values in his life, without actually needing to practice the religion. Mentioning the teachings of Christ, and discussing Christian values, should prove a good way to bring Christ into your life. And you’ll be doing so without forcing your husband’s hand in a direction which he cannot go. Ultimately, it’s my personal belief that love is the great equalizer in these situations. If you truly love each other and work towards good communication and understanding each day, you will do fine. Regardless of the religious habits you choose to share.
