During the early ’70s the Velvet Underground was not appreciated for their melodys. "Oh Sweet Nuthin, She aint’ got nuthin’ at all!" So goes the chorus of the "Oh Sweet Nuthin’" song. Love ain’t nothing, nothing at all anymore. How can you measure love? By art, culture, divorces, multiple partners or choices? The Greeks had three words for it Phila, Agape and Eros. Phila meant brotherly love like your homies. Agape for God or your mom. Eros was the love of sex. Today we should have what I called degrees of love. For example, if you want a platonic relationship, meaning you just want coffee or to hang out; call it "L3." This means it is a low priority. If you want just casual sex with this partner, let’s call this one "L2." Again close to a commitment but not quite. Of course the best might be "L1." This is marriage, or engagement. Then you could have what I call the inverse-of-chaos theory, and that is "e." You see, "e" in math means an undefinable amount. We don’t have that anymore in love. Forget about it. Ask your great-grand-parents if you want examples, or read your history books.
As it goes with Match.com, forget about it. Truth be told, I use to play the free agent on that site. I mean, I was not a member to find love, I was out for the "L2." Yet now I am on there for the "e" but it is dead. "Love my friends" is dead. It will probably be replaced with words like "Slove" meaning I am somewhat into you–a "slow love", get the idiom? Then you could devise a word like "flove", meaning I just want to have fun with you or a sport #$@#. Or you could get tangy with "stolove", meaning "I know you could give two cents about me, but in a story we would be a couple". The point is, what you see in Hollywood is so far away from the truth about the heart, there should be a new movie called "Ice Age for Love." Because that is exactly where were are wih people interested in others for the wrong reasons.
Match (.com) is Adam Smith in a transsexual role; he has come back telling all of the members, "Remember it is about Supply and Demand. You supply the lie and drive up the demand." Thus Match knows that repeat-performers like me who are on there are prowlers who mainly want a meal ticket. Their hearts are in their wallets. This goes for both men and women. I can honestly only write from a male perspective, because that is what I am. I am sure there are women out there who want to munch on this article. Go ahead, do it. The point is, why not have a site (they do but I can’t join them) for women looking for men with money only. Then when they say they are out for a "Soul-mate," what they really should say is, "I am looking for a "Gold-Mate."
To be real, I am going to start looking to the poor countries, maybe even move there. Where money is not an issue, but the sad thing is, it always is.
This brings me to Point Two "GOD and Chaos Theory." God is the opposite of Chaos, can I get a "Yaymen" on that one? Whatever you believe is fine with me, but throughout history, The Egyptians, the Parthians, The Romans, The Greeks, The Goths, or even the U.S., someone gets toys (land, wealth, women, men, etc.) and celebrate. But they don’t want the party to end. Then they run out of or become disenchanted with these blessings or gifts. So they look at their neighbor’s girl or house, and say "I got to have that!" Thus bringing more chaos, more war, more disorder. Keeping up with the Joneses will leave us tired. So if we are sucking at making profits right now, instead of blaming some Bilderburg Group or Obama, we must look to ourselves.
You see the Jews of old knew this better than anybody. Moses did not reach the Promised Land. Why?–and this was a heartbreak to him–because the Israelites were arguing with themselves, and building other Gods. More importantly, they were not following the rules, or Commandments. Hey let me say, I have broken them myself. That is why I am writing on this site, and not published by Random House. If I had played by the rules earlier in my life, my name would be bigger than James Patterson. Do you feel me? (I apologize for using Ghetto slang; it is used to emphasized the emotion as I bang these keys away).
So no matter who you are or where you were, know this: Things will only get better if WE get better. How do we do that? Follow the Big Ten in the dark. It’s what you do on your off time that matters most. I love ya’ll deuces!!!
