There are people who are attracted to two people at the same time and even have relationship with both of them at the same time.
You may or not may not be happy in your present relationship, then you suddenly find yourself getting close to another person.
Sometimes we are attracted to two persons at the same time and it can be emotional attachment or physical attraction. Such persons who are often drawn to two people at the same time is one whose certain desires are satisfied by one person and other desires are satisfied by another person. Such problem crops up when one looks at the relationship keeping in mind only oneself. In the later stage, it can create lot of problem and can result in breaking up of a happy married life and losing a partner for ever. When an individual has a mutual relationship with his partner, healthy negotiations take place and he communicates to the partner that certain needs or desires aren’t being fulfilled. This open conversation and mutual understanding goes a long way in building a healthy and strong relationship. One should know what to share with their partner and what to ignore. He should be more open and frank while dealing with his partner as a friendly relationship between spouses benefits both of them and their future together.
There are many couples who are happily married but attracted to other people on the net and it depends on how comfortable the person is and how far is the degree of attraction and commitment and whether he or she can distance himself if the need arises. But such relationship often creates an emotional conflict within itself leading to a feeling of guilt and shame and sometimes it becomes difficult for a person to repent. Before taking such drastic steps, one should realize the consequences it will face and try to avoid committing such grave sin.
In order to avoid such a situation in your life
You can
Give up your self-centeredness
Be caring and sincerely dedicated to your partner
Avoid communication gap and listen to what your partner says.
Get in touch with your inner conscience and thoughts.
While making decision, always share with your partner.
Value the “we” and “us” in a relationship more than you value the “I”.
Try to meet the demands of your partner.
Get honest opinion from the person whom you can trust and share your secrets.
